"I have complete control over the negative feelings I have when it comes to people. In any negative situation that I am having with someone I have to look at how it is serving me and change it there if it isn't."
"Please, please, I need my coffee."
"Listen, these things were happening to me. Every situation where I found myself embarrassed or appalled at what I was doing to someone, or what was going to happen to them later, was really only happening for me to change my thinking about it. It was just a feeling, not an actual thing. Something trying to get my attention."
"You make it seem that this very real life is rigged for you."
"Not just me."
"This can't be true."
"It is."
"No I mean I ordered Neuchatel cheese on my omelette and they gave me cheddar."
"Stay with me."
"Of course."
"I am saying that if you are worried about a negative experience that someone is going to have; that you truly believe they shouldn't, you can look closer and see that the experience was just for you. And then they won't."
"But what does it mean? It is nowhere near that simple. What are you an illusionist?"
"It means we spend 99 percent of our time worrying about people, places and things when it comes to our relationship with them and it doesn't have anything to do with those things."
"What kind of power do you think we have? Waking up putting on my pants and walking down here took the full capacity of my brain cells."
"I'm saying your worry is a waste. The experience works without you. Even if you feel directly effected by something."
"So you want me to believe that there is nothing to worry about?"
"It's a waste of time."
"So you are saying that I really wanted cheddar?"
"You really wanted beer and cereal you're just trying to impress me."
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